[{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"Article","@id":"https:\/\/www.poiplie.sk\/predhadzovanie-veci-z-minulosti\/#Article","mainEntityOfPage":"https:\/\/www.poiplie.sk\/predhadzovanie-veci-z-minulosti\/","headline":"Predhadzovanie veci z minulosti","name":"Predhadzovanie veci z minulosti","description":"Vo febru\u00e1ri 2021 som sa zozn\u00e1mila so svojim priate\u013eom. Nebolo to, \u017ee by sme sa nejako h\u013eadali, ob\u010das sme si nap\u00edsali a za\u010dali sme si dos\u0165 rozumie\u0165. Ja v tej dobe vydat\u00e1 s dvoma de\u0165mi a doma absol\u00fatne nefunk\u010dn\u00e9 oddelen\u00e9 sp\u00e1lne a v\u0161etko tak nejako o ni\u010dom, \u017eiadny int\u00edmny \u017eivot …","datePublished":"2023-06-12","dateModified":"2023-12-12","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.poiplie.sk\/author\/#Person","name":"","url":"https:\/\/www.poiplie.sk\/author\/","identifier":1,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/b74f056f0354b8ee50fcd0e6106aa964423477cb93024726458fce7ffd63d5d8?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/b74f056f0354b8ee50fcd0e6106aa964423477cb93024726458fce7ffd63d5d8?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"poiplie.sk","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"\/logo.png","url":"\/logo.png","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/www.poiplie.sk\/wp-content\/uploads\/couple-1934204_1280_10.jpg","url":"https:\/\/www.poiplie.sk\/wp-content\/uploads\/couple-1934204_1280_10.jpg","height":0,"width":0},"url":"https:\/\/www.poiplie.sk\/predhadzovanie-veci-z-minulosti\/","about":["Lifestyle"],"wordCount":601,"articleBody":"Vo febru\u00e1ri 2021 som sa zozn\u00e1mila so svojim priate\u013eom. Nebolo to, \u017ee by sme sa nejako h\u013eadali, ob\u010das sme si nap\u00edsali a za\u010dali sme si dos\u0165 rozumie\u0165. Ja v tej dobe vydat\u00e1 s dvoma de\u0165mi a doma absol\u00fatne nefunk\u010dn\u00e9 oddelen\u00e9 sp\u00e1lne a v\u0161etko tak nejako o ni\u010dom, \u017eiadny int\u00edmny \u017eivot jednoducho ni\u010d. Brala som to p\u00edsanie ako tak\u00fd ventil, ale \u010d\u00edm viac sme si p\u00edsali, t\u00fdm viac sme si rozumeli a prv\u00fdkr\u00e1t sa zi\u0161li a naozaj sme sa do seba dos\u0165 zamilovali, tak\u017ee pri\u0161lo na l\u00e1manie chleba, odchod od man\u017eela a za\u010dal n\u00e1s vz\u0165ah s priate\u013eom. Bohu\u017eia\u013e, to jednoducho nie je a\u017e tak\u00e9 ru\u017eov\u00e9 a m\u00e1 aj svoje temn\u00e9 chv\u00ed\u013eky. V\u00e4\u010d\u0161inu \u010dasu je to pohodov\u00fd chlap, ktor\u00fd doma pom\u00e1ha, star\u00e1 sa o moje deti, do pr\u00e1ce chod\u00ed a z pr\u00e1ce hne\u010f domov a v\u0161etok \u010das tr\u00e1vime spolu. Jednoducho tak\u00e1 t\u00e1 fajn pohoda, \u010do ma s b\u00fdval\u00fdm naozaj ch\u00fdbalo. Raz za \u010das m\u00e1 v\u017edy tak\u00fd stav, \u017ee sa jednoducho blokne a za\u010dne ma predhadzova\u0165 v\u0161etky veci, \u010do som kedy pod\u013ea neho urobila zle.Pr\u00edklad – teraz naposledy to bolo o tom, \u017ee som prehodila p\u00e1r viet s \u010dlovekom, ktor\u00e9ho som v \u017eivote nevidela a ani vidie\u0165 nepotrebujem, jednoducho v hre sme hodili p\u00e1r slov o tom, ako sa m\u00e1me a \u010do rob\u00edme at\u010f. No a m\u00f4j priate\u013e by som povedala a\u017e ve\u013emi \u017eiarliv\u00fd, si to hne\u010f vezme k srdcu a za\u010dnem po\u010d\u00fava\u0165, \u017ee s n\u00edm nie\u010do m\u00e1m a \u017ee som podviedla raz (svojho exman\u017eela s n\u00edm) a m\u00e1m to vraj jednoducho v registri a ned\u00e1 sa mi veri\u0165. No len\u017ee on takto \u017eiarli aj na m\u00f4jho \u0161\u00e9fa z pr\u00e1ce alebo ma je schopn\u00fd predlo\u017ei\u0165 rok star\u00fa z\u00e1le\u017eitos\u0165, ako by to bolo dnes. Napr\u00edklad \u010fal\u0161ia vec, \u017ee \u200b\u200bsa o neho nestar\u00e1, \u017ee mu ned\u00e1m najes\u0165. Mimochodom za n\u00e1s vz\u0165ah pribral u\u017e 20kg predt\u00fdm kos\u0165 a ko\u017ea. Bohu\u017eia\u013e v jeho minulom vz\u0165ahu mal \u017eenu, ktor\u00e1 sa vyspala kde s k\u00fdm a navy\u0161e sa ona teda o neho nestarala, nevarila, neupratovala, jednoducho ni\u010d.Len\u017ee k t\u00fdm jeho scen\u00e1m, ke\u010f pr\u00e1ve toto urob\u00ed, tak sa v\u00e4\u010d\u0161inou zbal\u00ed a od\u00edde a potom za\u010dne hne\u010f p\u00edsa\u0165 stra\u0161ne ve\u013ea vy\u010d\u00edtav\u00fdch spr\u00e1v o tom, ako ho nemilujem, ako ma na \u0148om nez\u00e1le\u017e\u00ed at\u010f. v\u00e4\u010d\u0161inou sa tak za pol d\u0148a upokoj\u00ed a vr\u00e1ti sa, ale v\u00e4\u010d\u0161inou pre neho mus\u00edm d\u00f4js\u0165 a mus\u00edm ho prehov\u00e1ra\u0165, \u017ee to \u010do si mysl\u00ed nie je pravda a potom to je jednoducho zase \u00fa\u017easn\u00fd chlap, ktor\u00fd so v\u0161etk\u00fdm pom\u00f4\u017ee. Ja u\u017e jednoducho neviem \u010do s n\u00edm.. kladiem si ot\u00e1zku, ako predch\u00e1dza\u0165 t\u00fdmto veciam? Predpoklad\u00e1m, \u017ee to je zakorenen\u00e9 z minul\u00e9ho vz\u0165ahu a bohu\u017eia\u013e to zasahuje aj do n\u00e1\u0161ho.. Furt mu hovor\u00edm, \u017ee nie som jeho ex a \u017ee to jednoducho u\u017e preh\u00e1\u0148a, \u017ee nem\u00f4\u017ee robi\u0165 tak\u00e9to sc\u00e9ny, \u017ee rob\u00ed z kom\u00e1ra \u0165avy, ale je ma to v\u00e4\u010d\u0161inou prd platn\u00e9, t\u00fa sc\u00e9nu si neodpusti potom sa teda ospravedln\u00ed a zase sa v\u0161etko tvar\u00ed idylick\u00e9. U\u017e som z toho unaven\u00e1.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                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